"If you want your marriage to sizzle, with love in the loving cup, whenever you're wrong admit it, whenever you're right shut up." -- Ogden Nash

  To us women men are a mystery, frustration and challenge. Of course they probably say the same thing about us. They seem to send us mixed messages which are really confusing. I think it depends on the guy and what he has been through in his life that dictates how he feels about fidelity, sex and romance. The fact is that men don’t think about writing us love letters or sending us flowers or being romantic. Of course being women we crave all those things. It is obvious that men’s ideas of romance are different than ours. Men need to try to be more romantic with their woman. Then of course they are not born communicators and we have to pull every little detail out of them which is really frustrating for women. We don’t realize if we just give them some space they will talk to us eventually. Men hate women who are constantly on them. They like to refer to that as “nagging”. Then you may get the line. “You aren’t my mother!” As women we try to change, guide and show our men what to do the more the men turn away. This isn’t the way to go and can just cause more problems in the long run.

Whether you love it or hate it, marijuana is part of our society. It is green, brown or a gray mixture of dried shredded leaves, stems, seeds and flowers of the hemp plant. It is usually rolled into a joint or put in a pipe to smoke. There is no missing the smell of someone smoking marijuana. It usually has a strong odour, which can be sweet and sour at the same time. This is a mind altering drug and contains the chemical THC as well as an astounding 400 other chemicals. Imagine what that is doing to your brain and body!